Essays from Kristy Forbes exploring PDA, autistic experience, parenting, identity, care, systems and the ordinary moments that shape family life.
This piece was first published on Kristy's Substack. Shared here so it's easier to find.
"A child gives one word, and the adult wants a paragraph. A teenager shares one feeling, and the parent asks five questions. T...
Imagination isn't a problem. IĀ really want to say that upfront because for so many PDA kids, imagination is how they stay connected to the world, not how they escape it. Role play, characters, other realities, these are ...
Hello, Iām here writing. It isnāt easy, and it isnāt complete.
Be patient with me, please, as I figure out a way to communicate this internalised experience, these thousands of thoughts, these physical movements that co...
Yesterday, someone trolled me on social media.
That in itself isnāt the thing. That happens to autistic folks who joyfully resist the disorder narrative all the time.
Itās threatening to some, to read my writings or he...
At fifteen years old, I left school midway through Year Nine and went into the workforce.
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I vehemently expressed that I would not return to school and with that, my mother said if I was not returning, I needed to get...
Trigger Warning: Mentions food, eating disorders and sensory aversions.
Please note the below is my personal experience and I am not a qualified medical professional or dietician.
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Food. Glorious food.
Letās talk ab...