Essays from Kristy Forbes exploring PDA, autistic experience, parenting, identity, care, systems and the ordinary moments that shape family life.
One of the things I've observed throughout my years of working with PDA families, and experienced in my own life as a parent, is just how readily parents are held responsible for their children's distress.
We're told th...
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ThereĀ have been many times in our family where life felt soĀ hard and stayed feeling so hard for much longer than I expected it to.
I would spend weeks thinking that once we got through a particular thing, once everyo...
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There was a long stretch of years where I believed I was failing my children because I couldn't get up.
I'd absorbed all the messaging about play. Get on the floor. Follow their lead. Be animated, be available, enter...